A subject many joke about but few understand. Because we are all quite uncomfortable with the reality that some day, we may all need to deal with some form of embarrassment in bed, we make light of it.
In this new world, filled with messenger, facebook and text messages friends encourage each other to share their most intimate moments. Peer pressure (and other factors) push the boudaries of topics previously held sacred. In the not so distant past, when a new couple 'got together' for the first time, they were learning their love-making (carefully) together. In the age of electronics, where a BJ is often not seen as a true sexual encounter, but just some fun witout 'real feelings', we become inhibited when we find a person who we truly care about.
Pornography and 'Blue Pills' are a poor substitute for intimacy and love-sharing. Even a 'quickie' becomes and impossible task if you need to rely on external stimuli. Partners are worried that their performance is lacking, while both people should be free to learn and share together.
Men and women are wired differently. Men, by the nature of their wiring, don't communicate much about their sexuality. I have looked through bookstores and found many books for women, and often none for men. This is strange, when it's easier for women to 'hide' their physical sexual problems then it is for men. Where to the men turn to when a problem arises?
I have dedicated a portion of my practice on Male Sexual Performance to bring about confidence in Men who want to find real and lasting pleasure in their relationship through their sexuality.
Hypnosis provides great tools to enhance your sexual experience. |